Retry the first connect and bind on reconnect fromStart (#80)

* Regression tests for a client that retries its first connect and bind

* Retry the first connect and bind on reconnect: { fromStart: true }

* Pin that the signal bounding the first bind also closes the session

* Name a failed connect once, default the backoff where it lives, and fix the deadline advice

* Carry the failure that started the retries on the abort that ends them

* Pin one retry announcement per attempt when a link drops mid-bind

* Announce a retry when its wait is over, not when it is scheduled

* Say what the process-hold assertion expects, not what a failure would mean

src/session.ts

@@ -265,8 +265,8 @@ export class Session extends EventEmitter<SessionEvents> {
 		return new ReconnectLoop({
 			connect: reconnect.connect,
 			log: this.log,
-			maxDelay: reconnect.maxDelay ?? defaults.maxDelay,
-			minDelay: reconnect.minDelay ?? defaults.minDelay,
+			maxDelay: reconnect.maxDelay,
+			minDelay: reconnect.minDelay,
 			onConnected: sock => this.comeBackUp(sock, reconnect.onConnected),
 		});
 	}