Retry the first connect and bind on reconnect fromStart (#80)

* Regression tests for a client that retries its first connect and bind

* Retry the first connect and bind on reconnect: { fromStart: true }

* Pin that the signal bounding the first bind also closes the session

* Name a failed connect once, default the backoff where it lives, and fix the deadline advice

* Carry the failure that started the retries on the abort that ends them

* Pin one retry announcement per attempt when a link drops mid-bind

* Announce a retry when its wait is over, not when it is scheduled

* Say what the process-hold assertion expects, not what a failure would mean

test/session.test.ts

@@ -1638,7 +1638,7 @@ describe('application hooks that throw or reject', () => {
 			debug: noop,
 			error: noop,
 			info: (msg, metadata) => {
-				if (msg === 'reconnect - retrying after a drop') delays.push(Number(metadata?.delay));
+				if (msg === 'reconnect - retrying') delays.push(Number(metadata?.delay));
 			},
 			verbose: noop,
 			warn: noop,